写公众号开始先让自己爽，高情商修炼心法先拿老婆孩子练手情绪价值拉满，国产的东西真是遥遥领先/感恩日记-2025-08-24

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August 24, 2025, 1:22 AM

大半夜的突然有个问题蹦出来。写这个公众号发布坚持日更这个是很难的，尤其是在最开始首先要挑战这个惰性，每天坚持输出其次要保证质量。更重要的是最初的坚持是没有关注的，甚至没有人看！这个低谷期需要挺过去才有可能有结果。而我却没有这个坎儿，为什么这么说呢？因为别人开始悦人有反馈了才悦己。我就不同了只悦己而，悦不悦人我先不管想让自己爽了再说。

In the middle of the night, a question suddenly popped up. Writing and publishing daily on this public account is tough, especially at the start when you have to overcome laziness, keep producing every day, and ensure quality. More importantly, the initial persistence gets no attention, not even a single viewer! You need to push through this low period to see any results. But I don’t have this hurdle. Why do I say that? Because others start pleasing themselves only after getting feedback from pleasing others. I’m different—I focus on pleasing myself first, and whether it pleases others, I’ll deal with that later.

August 24, 2025, 1:38 AM

网上看视频，看到了一个驴子把妹儿的视频用花言巧语骗到了将吃掉自己的喷火龙，情绪价值给到满毫不吝啬的夸奖。然后搞定了喷火龙，并且生下了喷火驴一下被震撼到了！作为一个土生土长的西北男人永远只会做嘴却笨的不要不要的。该好好检讨一下了，该收下一切情绪。以后对家里的三个美人一定要把情绪价值给到位，尽量学着拉满！不仅得学还要练，要天天练好就这么做

I was watching a video online and saw a donkey flirting with a dragon, using sweet talk to charm the fire-breathing dragon that was about to eat him, giving full-on emotional value with lavish praise. Then, he won over the dragon and even produced a fire-breathing donkey offspring—I was shocked! As a born-and-bred Northwest man, I’m always clumsy with words, just terrible at it. I need to reflect on this and rein in all my emotions. From now on, I’ll make sure to give full emotional value to the three beauties at home, aiming to max it out! Not only do I need to learn, but I also need to practice—practice every day and do it well.

August 24, 2025, 11:00 AM

昨天再说给家里人把情绪拉满，不过今天真正的面对这些熊孩子真的有点绷不住呀！再仔细想一想，他们就是很好的试金石。如果把他们都能搞定，给他们提供足够的情绪价值，而且自己还不崩的话，应该就没有谈不成的客户了。

Yesterday, I was talking about giving full emotional value to my family, but today, facing these naughty kids, I’m really struggling to keep it together! Thinking about it carefully, they’re actually great testing grounds. If I can handle them, provide enough emotional value, and still not lose it myself, then there probably isn’t a client I can’t win over.

August 24, 2025, 12:13 PM

今天看到一个好久没有用的国产蓝牙耳机，就好奇心的想打开连接一下，看看能不能用。结果一下刷新了我的三观，一个耳机还要连接的时候还要登个App。用邮箱就算了，邮箱登录完之后最好要输入手机号码，不输入手机号码是进不了，进不了就没法用。我这是从石器时代过来的，现在的国产科技都这么遥遥领先吗？登录注册就算了，完了要开一大堆权限什么通讯录权限什么定位权限，还有什么浮窗权限没见过用这么多权限的应用！结果一顿操作猛如虎试了半个小时还没连上，这要是用日元买的我指定就让他旋转跳跃一下。我很想支持国产品牌但奈何实力有限，我想知道大家平时都是怎么爱国的？做一个离岸爱国者我要进步，更要遥遥领先。

Today, I came across a domestic Bluetooth earphone I hadn’t used in a while and got curious to try connecting it to see if it still works. The result blew my mind. To connect a single earphone, I had to log into an app. Fine, I used my email, but after logging in, it demanded my phone number. Without the phone number, I couldn’t proceed, and without proceeding, I couldn’t use it. Am I from the Stone Age or what? Is domestic tech so far ahead now? Logging in and registering is one thing, but then it asked for a ton of permissions—contacts, location, floating window permissions, stuff I’ve never seen an app demand! After half an hour of intense effort, I still couldn’t connect. If I’d bought this with yen, I’d have made it spin and jump by now. I really want to support domestic brands, but my ability is limited. How do people usually show their patriotism? As an offshore patriot, I need to improve and aim to be far ahead.

August 24, 2025, 2:20 PM

今天带孩子来上课，碰见这个奇葩的这个地址用谷歌地图搜不到具体位置，更奇葩的是他是个UB02，找了好半天，结果问人也问不明白。怎么说呢不管你路感再好到了香港也会抓瞎，说一下香港的这个一层是二层所谓的一层在香港叫G层。下次来香港的话别人告诉你这一层，你就是按内的是在二层，还有区一些比较小的地方之前一定提前Google一下地址，不然会抓瞎。

Today, I took the kids to class and ran into a bizarre issue. The address couldn’t be found on Google Maps, and to make it weirder, it was a UB02. I searched for ages, asked people, but no one could explain it clearly. Let me put it this way: no matter how good your sense of direction is, you’ll be lost in Hong Kong. The so-called “first floor” here is actually the second floor; what they call the first floor is the G floor. Next time you come to Hong Kong and someone tells you it’s on the first floor, they mean the second floor. For smaller places, always Google the address in advance, or you’ll be completely lost.

香港Henry

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